Adam and I just completed a one day training course that I think is perfect for intended parents expecting via surrogacy.
There's lots of brilliant help and advice provided to pregnant women here in the UK but not to us as we don't exactly meet the criteria! So we had been looking for some time for a suitable course but found almost everything out there is geared towards pregnancy, birth and breast feeding.
This course is designed for nannies and doulas. We found it to be brilliantly practical for people with zero experience (like me!) and entirely supportive of us as future gay dads. So with the help of an anatomically correct doll that we named Jacob, I can now bathe, change and generally nurse an inanimate doll - let's hope I can transfer these skills to the real thing. I highly recommend it:
http://www.doulatraining.org.uk/careofthenewborntraining